of Job Hunting

Since my company closed at the end of January I have been slowly dipping my toes into the job hunting pool… today as I sat across from a few of the smartest women that I had the pleasure to work with at my company, I was listening to their interview experiences of the last few weeks and thinking job hunting is like dating, and I think that’s why I am sucking at it.


 Set the bar high: after all I deserve it right?

Make them feel important: each person needs to feel special.

Be available: but not too available.

Respond in a timely fashion: but not to quick after you receive an email, after all you dont want to look desperate.

This is what you want: you need to tell them all you want them/this more than anything, even if you have to say the same thing tomorrow to a different person.

Always better and less awkward when you’re introduced by a mutual friend than just clicking “send” online, but in desperate hopes to find something that will make you happy again, and fill the void, you do it anyways .

Ugh… no wonder why I haven’t jumped in with both feet just yet… I think ill keep “wading” at the edge of this pool till I am ready.


New Year

More Yoga + Pilates:

wont be too hard considering I am obsessed with Jennifer Phelan and her classes at the North End Yoga Studio.

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Stress less, enjoy the little moments, really decompress when its time:

this will be much harder.


Work smarter not harder: make the most of the hrs I am at work.


Shop for only really worth it pieces – stop buying just because its on sale – better yet stop buying with out looking at the price tags!


Kick lupus butt


Be happier – in the end all these little things come down to I just want to be happier this year. This year I want butterflies.